Bridal Shower Wording Ideas

One of the most common questions I get about bridal showers is how to word the invitations, what poems or cute rhymes to use, and especially how to let guests know that there will be a theme. Here's a guide to bridal shower invitation wording that should answer all of your questions.

What Should be Included on a Bridal Shower Invitation
Bride's full name (and sometimes Groom's)
RSVP name and number
Date to RSVP by

Other Information You Might Want to Include:
Theme of shower or gifts (ie garden shower, lingerie shower, etc.)
Date of the wedding
Host's name(s)
If the shower is a surprise, clearly state that, and include what time the bride is expected to arrive.
(That way people know what time they absolutely must arrive by.)

Sample Traditional Bridal Shower Invitation Wording

Please join us
For a bridal shower honoring
Jodie Sherer
Saturday June 17, 4 pm
At the home of Lisa and Alice Brock
47 Anywhere Drive, Springfield
Please RSVP by June 10
to Lisa Brock at 714-555-1234
Jodie is registered at Springfield House and Home

Sample Fun Bridal Shower Invitation Wording
Help us shower the bride-to-be with love!
Come celebrate Karen Jones
At a bridal shower on Sunday, May 2 at 3 pm at the Glenoaks Lodge
Dress casually and be ready to play some fun games.
Bring a gift that will help bring out the chef in Karen.
Regrets only to Lisa Jones at 415-555-1234

An Invitation to a Surprise Bridal Shower
Shhh! It's a surprise for Nancy Winton
Join her bridesmaids as we celebrate her
With a shower to help her set up house with Mark, her husband to be.
Thursday, August 1, 7-10 pm
Bertelsmans Bar, 362 James Avenue
Please be on time as the bride will arrive by 7:30.
RSVP to Joan Rosenberg, 212-456-7890 or Martine Brillier, 718-456-7890 by July 25.
Bridal Registries: Bedding, Bathrooms and More, & Housewares Unlimited.

A Bridal Shower Invitation Poem
Mark and Lyndon
will soon have a wedding
Down the aisle
Is where they're heading
Before they become
Husband and wife
Let's shower them with things
For their new life
A couple's shower to honor Mark Jones and Lyndon Reading
at the Ladybird Restaurant, 42 Wallaby Lane, Amherst
3 pm, Saturday January 3.
Please call Reese Casey at 414-555-1234 for directions, and to RSVP.

A Shower for a Couple About to Celebrate a Commitment Ceremony
John and Jack's ceremony is on the way
Help them relax after the big day!
A Honeymoon Shower
June 7, 2005, 6 pm
at the home of Marcos Rodriguez
Bring a gift that they can enjoy on their honeymoon to St. Barts
Or, choose from their registry at Shulmann's Department Store
Please RSVP by May 24th to Marcos at 312-444-4444.

A Recipe Shower
You are invited to a bridal shower
Honoring Christine Matthews
June 1, 2004, 2:30 pm
35 Smith Street, Apt 34, Reston
Please write your favorite recipe on one of the enclosed cards, and your advice for a successful marriage on the other.
You may also bring, if you like, a gift to help set up their kitchen.
RSVP to Emilia Rivera 703-432-1987

A Couple's Shower
Bridal Showers Bring Wedding Flowers!
Helen Petrillo and John Zheng are getting married.
Before they tie the knot, let's shower them with love
And a few presents as well!
Please join us for a picnic dinner and couple's shower
April 7, 2006, 5:30 pm
Gerald Gardens Pavillion, enter at the corner of Wantaugh and Spring Streets
Please RSVP to Mei Wu at 419-455-4545 by March 29.

An Around-the-Clock Shower
Come celebrate our bride-to-be
Mariana DiSilvano
as she prepares to have the time of her life
when she marries John O'Hara
An Around-the-Clock Bridal Shower and Brunch
March 14th, 2005, 11:30 am.
Your time of day is _____________
Please bring a gift appropriate to that time of day. For example, 10 am might mean a breakfast tray or a robe. 7 pm might be a set of cocktail glasses, movie tickets, or whatever else you can think of!
RSVP: Gwendolyn Johnson, 312-232-2323 or by March 1st.

A No-Gifts Shower
Christine and John are tying the knot!
Let's help them celebrate before the big day
and shower them with love and best wishes
Saturday, October 23, 9 pm
Huntsman's Tavern, 576 Main Street
Please bring a favorite story about the bride or groom to share, or advice on what makes a successful marriage.
Christine and John have asked for donations to the Jonestown Theater Company in lieu of wedding gifts.

When many of the guests know the groom, but not the bride
They've bought the dress and ordered the cake
They're anxious about the vows they'll make
Help pass the time and shorten the wait
We're having a shower and here is the date.
June 24, 2005
A bridal shower to honor and meet Roberta Ling, fiancée of Horace Shamir
3 pm
the home of Abbie and Kris Kuratsova
42 Yekcim Drive, #2
RSVP to Abbie Kuratsova, 213-243-2424, by June 4.

More information and advice on bridal showers
Bridal Shower Basics
Bridal Shower Games
Throwing a Spa Bridal Shower
Planning a Bridal Shower
Bridal Shower Ideas - Themes, Hints, Tips and Bridal Shower Ideas

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